Sabtu, 07 Mei 2011

Apa Itu Masalah?????

Bermasalah Seperti

Seperti Helaan nafas yang aku hembuskan…
Mencoba mencari sebuah jalan keluar…ditengah hiruk pikuknya ramainya dunia ini..
Permasalahan yang datang tak akan pernah berhenti…dia akan terus datang mendera kita tanpa
Henti….
Kucoba untuk berdiri..
Ingin rasanya aku berlari..
Berlari….dan terus berlari tanpa henti….sampai aku letih..
Menjauhi kehidupan ….jauh dari keramaian hikuk pikuk masalah…masalah yang selalu datang melanda…
TAPI…..
Semua itu hanya sia…sia….dan sia-sia…
Karena dimanapun kita berada masalah akan selalu datang..
Tanpa kita sadari atau kita sadar…
Hidup ini selalu berubah…..
Seperti roda yang terus berputar…
Berputar terus…terus..dan terus…
Dan hanya berheti jika waktunya telah tiba..
Lepaskan semua rasa lelah,menyerah dan bebanmu…
Tapi masalah….
menjadikan ini kisah hidup…
Untuk cerita anak cucu kita…
Menjadi pengalaman hidup mereka…
Masalah datang dalam hidup…
Bukan untuk menghukum kita…
Tetapi membuat kita untuk belajar…
Tentang apa yang terjadi di jagat raya ini…

Selasa, 29 Maret 2011

whispering at night

Chiming clock rang the voice of this room, seemed to sing along with rain mists out there makes me late in tranquility.
activities make us drown in a busy wheel are tiring,
but I will always miss singing tunes that I send it through the night wind will whisper words of peace to you.
I am not a poet or a writer of love poetry of love like Kahlil Gibran or william shakespiere.
but I'm only an ordinary person who strives to provide the best for u.keep my heart ...

Jumat, 25 Maret 2011

The art of Love

Here are some elements present in the love that is felt when we fell in love.

1. Care (Attention)
Love shall bear interest at a beloved object.
When we love someone, then we will consider the difficulties it faces, will try to lighten the load, and special attention is given to all his movements.

2. Responsibility (Responsibility)
Love must bear responsible attitude towards the object loved.
The husband who loves his wife, will be responsible for the welfare and happiness of the household. He also will be responsible and dedicated all his potential to 'happy' object loved.

3. Respect (Respect)
Love must give birth to accept what the attitude of the beloved object and always berikhtiyar so as not to disappoint. This is called respect

4. Knowledge (Knowledge)
Love shall bear interest to understand the intricacies of a beloved object.
When we love someone who would become a life partner, we will try to understand the personality, background, interests and quality of his faith.
Four components of this love is always engraved in the hearts of the Companions. And the resulting effect is so powerful.

Rabu, 16 Maret 2011

Conscience of a man


We know, you the women truly appreciate the effort that we actually do. and that you must know, we were always meant it to people we care about! it's just that we need you to smile when we feel tired, almost desperate, and indeed we will re-do it for you. all! just because you ...

and yes! we ever knew. that when you just shut up and show that you're bored, you want us to remain patient. but we do not want to be seen can not understand you by asking "so wants how?". we will be silent for a moment, and think what could make you smile back? because your smile that animates our lives, really! all because of you.

We actually knew. that you are happy if we wrote such romantic words in Korean movies that you watch. you daydream that this happened in the movie it happens in your life? (Right?). but precisely because you often imagine it, we do not do it for you, we think hard, play a surprise set of the brain that do not even think of in your imagination, to see you smile, really! all just because you guys ..

We also know, you receive our next to you not because of our handsome. when you idolize someone who is handsome then we would not care to look, and try to change the subject, instead we do not care, actually we were pretty disgusted with the way you flatter a man who even knows you're not, but we have to be a good leader for you. and make us act more wisely in front of you. honest! all because you guys ..

We just know that you appreciate every effort that we do to help you do your job, when you say in trouble really, we will try our best to help you. and when we come home to you with food, without a task that you need, meaning we did not get what you are looking for and that is our mind when it's just that the last attempt we could do just to accompany you! until the task is completed, make sure you do not forget to fill your belly, we were really worried about your health .. indeed, all that just because you guys ..

We also know our rate minus when you know we smoke, and when it is we are trying to break us. when we do not succeed, then we will try to reduce them. eliminate the habit gradually. but when it does not work then we would not smoke in front of you. however, when you then put pressure on us, then we will really have to lie to you, although we know it was wrong, but that we do just to make you comfortable on our side. indeed, all that just because you guys ..

Selasa, 15 Maret 2011

The difference between facebook and twitter

Both these social networking sites are more popular in all corners of the earth. In America, in Europe, in Arabic, in Indonesia, and everywhere. If seen, both these sites have some similarities. First, of course both are equally social networking site. Second, both Facebook and Twitter are both relying on the status update feature. The difference, up to ask 'What's on your mind? (What are you thinking?) ', While Twitter asks' What are you doing? (What are you doing?) '. Which question do you think is better?

Now, let's see further differences between these two sites. The main difference is complexity versus simplicity. Up comes in a variety of features which is practically complete. All is on up: from simply update the status to share links, share images, video sharing, messaging, blogging (note), even had fun chatting. Not only that, Facebook also provides a feature invitations (invitation), cause, quizzes, groups, and so forth. Up seems to offer the concept of 'one-stop-visit' similar to 'one-stop-shopping' if we again shopping. By logging into Facebook, a person can do anything without having to YahooMail, Gmail, Flickr, Youtube, YahooMessenger, WindowsMessenger, and so forth.

Instead, it offers the simplicity of Twitter. In a way, Twitter is not much more than just a status update (although now starting to add some supporting features). In fact, we write status was restricted to 140 characters (and for that Twitter is categorized in microblogging). But it is said, loading status on Twitter more lightning aka faster and guaranteed start running than up. And in fact, precisely because of this simplicity, Twitter is often more popular than Facebook.

Another difference, Twitter distinguish friends become 'Following' and followers'. Following means that our friends to follow, while the follower means to the friends who followed us. While on Facebook, all of our friends have the same title: 'friend'.

In terms of how both can be accessed, the interesting part of Twitter is that users can update the status of all types of phones (the old school though) via short message service, aka text. The mechanism, sms sent to Twitter, and Twitter will instantly display the new status to the user's Twitter account pages. Very easy is not it?

But now, Twitter and Facebook may not have opposed each other, although both are still competing with each other. You can have accounts at two sites at once, but enough to write you a status update on Twitter just once, and instantly the same status will appear on your Facebook page. How, you only need to integrate alias connects your Twitter account to your Facebook account.

Jumat, 14 Januari 2011

Calm your mind

1. Change the situation. Life is full of choices.

If you feel stuck dealing with a problem, do not immediately feel if you hit a dead end. Immediately change the situation. Find a way to get a solution. For example, if you feel the burden that had crossed the line, try to tell your problems to others and ask their opinion.

2. Never tired of learning, making changes and apologized.

Never too old to do good. Remember, if you do good today, you will get a return on another day. Your days are very meaningful.

3.accept what can not be changed.

Stress can occur at any time. Rather than bemoan the problem, you better accept what happened and to think positive that one day in a positive way out will come your way. Use this time to rest, for example. Panic will only lead you in the direction of excessive stress.

4. The way you manage stress determines the quality of your life.

Try to follow the social activities in the environment around you. Research reveals that volunteering provides a huge benefit for the peace of soul. Try Aja!

5. Pamper yourself.

Stress has a considerable influence for one's health condition. Siasati stress by providing free time on your daily activities. Start pampering yourself, by doing a relaxation to soothe the mind. Appreciate and consider yourself first before anyone else.

6. Eliminate anxiety.

Sometimes, we often worry about things before they happen. In fact, probably just from what you worry about is not necessarily occur. So, do not be quick teralu predict bad things will happen to you. Free your mind from the anxiety that is not no reason!

7. Express your happiness.

Get used to speak with words that evoke a sense of joy and positive attitude. Words can affect your emotions and your attitude, so that this situation can stimulate your spirit.

8. A smile makes your life vibrant.

So smile. Other people who saw you, would be happy to come see you smile.

9.love is healed.

Sprinkle your affection to all your loved ones. maintains relationships with the people closest that can make you happy. Happiness is contagious. So look for people who can transmit it to your happiness. Believe

10.trust yourself

Stop hoping to others. Happiness does not depend on others, but there is within yourself. Try!

11. Realize your dreams.

Dreams are the trigger factors that could be the starting point from the future a brighter and happier. Many successful people who started out with big dreams.


12. Hone spirituality.

Expand pray and be close to God to clear your mind: D

Rabu, 05 Januari 2011

tips pendekatan menurut ramalan bintang

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Capricorn :CAPRICORN (22 Desember-19 Januari)
Kalo nge-date pertama ama cewek Capricorn, bawa deh dia ke resto yang mahal, romantis dan berkelas. Bawa bunga untuk dia dan dia suka cowok berpakaian formal dan berkelas juga. Cewek Capricorn tuh otaknya encer,SMART. Bahkan doi nggak akan saingan sama kamu malah dia yang akan Bantu kamu ‘melangkah’ lebih ke depan lagi. Doi suka sama hadiah yang mahal yang berkesan buatnya (emang rada matre kali). Kalo dia berkarir nanti, cewekCapricorn bakal sukses dan ambisius sekali. Doi suka yang namanya business meetings dan doi tuh tipe orang yang sangat padat banget jadwalnya. Doi nggak gampang percaya sama cowok, jadi jangan sekali kali hilang kepercayaan deh dari doi. Doi akan menjadi istri yang OKE BANGET didampingi oleh pria yang sukses. Dia mampu menjadi kebanggaan calon pasangan hidupnya.

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Aquarius : AQUARIUS (20 Januari-18 Febuari)
Pas nge-date sama cewek Aquarius, pake deh baju yang model funky. Doi anaknya bisa diajak ngomongin apa aja. Doi juga pendengar yang baik dan punya banyak pendapat dan perspektif. Saat nge-date pertama, jangan harap dia langsung bisa suka sama kamu. Dia harus mengenal kamu lebih jauh lagi. Jangan sekali kali kamu nyatain cintamu terlalu cepat. Kalo cewekAquarius mau komitmen hubungan pacaran sama kamu, berarti dia akan setia. Kalian berdua mesti punya jalan pikiran yang mirip-mirip. Kalo nggak,nggak bakal ada masa depan.

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Pisces : PISCES (19 Februari - 20 Maret)
Pas nge-date pertama kali, terserah kamu mau pake baju apa. Kamu yang bikin keputusan sendiri. Musik dan dansa adalah favorit nya doi. Kalo nggak bisa dansa, cepet deh ambil kelas dansa. Cewek Pisces nggak peduli tampang kamu plus apa minus. Yang penting hati kamu plus. Kehumorisan kamu diperlukan sama si doi karena dia juga demen nge-joke. Doi juga kurang percaya diri. Jadi dia butuh kamu untuk bisa membangkitan hal ini. Doi gampang jatuh cinta. Herannya, si doi care sama semua orang walaupun ada yang perlakuin dia dengan nggak baek.Kalo mau dapetin doi, coba deh untuk bisa nyenengin doi and be romantic.Dukung doi deh dalam hidupnya supaya dia lebih tau apa arti tujuan hidupnya karena doi tipe-tipe yang moody gitu dan butuh perhatian yang ekstra.

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Aries : ARIES (21 Maret-20 April)
Biasanya, cewek-cewek Aries tuh demen cowok yang berpakaian kaos en jeans.Pokoknya, mesti tampil ‘manly’ deh. Be Macho! Jangan sekali kali ungkit tentang ex-cewek kamu karena cewek Aries biasanya mau menjadi ‘the oneand only’. Ungkapin deh ke dia kalo kamu merasa dia tuh kewl (’cool’)abis, fun banget, dan temen cewek yang paling menyenangkan deh pokoknya. Tapi inget, jangan gombal doank. Cewek Aries paling menghargai kejujuran.Kalo cewek Aries ini emang juga naksir sama kamu, wah.bisa jadi dia yang lebih agresif. Dia juga bisa ngejar kamu duluan alias make the first move. Dan bisa jadi juga, dia yang bakal ‘nembak’ kamu duluan. Jadi,buat tipe cowok yang shy-shy cat’ alias malu-malu kucing, wah.kamu bisaberabe 7 keliling nanti

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Taurus : TAURUS (21 April-20 Mei)
Kalo kamu dapet kesempatan untuk nge-date si Taurus ini, wah kamu harusbawa dia ke resto yang kelas tinggi dan juga kamu harus berpakaian yangformal, keren dan rapih plus bawa boil sedan 4 pintu. SiTaurus ini demen dimanja dengan pelukan tanda kasih sayang (ta-e-lah, cewe mana sih yang nggak mau?). Dia suka banget kalo bisa ada kesempatan untuk candlelight dinner di rumah dengan catatan kamu yang masak (apa nggak kebalik tuh???’auk ah gelap!). Mungkin kelihatannya cewekTaurus dikit matre kali yah.Tapi jangan salah.Hati mereka tuh warm and loving buanget!!! Tapi kalo kamu bikin dia sampai marah besar dan cemburu, wah dia bisa mencak mencak tuch! Satu hal lagi,kalo kamu nge-rokok atau nge-drugs, hehehe… mendingan lepasin deh semuaitu karena cewekTaurus adalah tipe yang ’security-minded’ dan kalo dia biar merasa secure sama kamu, dijamin deh dia nggak bakal lari dari kamu!

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Gemini : GEMINI (21 Mei - 21 Juni)
Cewek Gemini demen cowok yang gaya berpakaian nya kasual dan santai.Cewek Gemini tuh emang hobi ngobrol dan ngerumpi. Jadi siap-siap deh kamu harus pinter ngomong juga dan komunikasi bisa lancar soale cewek Gemini tuh tipe cewek yang aktif. Mereka juga aktif banget dan intelek. Jadi,siap-siap deh kamu harus bisa ngobrol tentang pengetahuan umum dan lain-lainnya. Cewek Gemini juga suka cowok yang kreatif dan ligat. Kalo kamu punya dua criteria ini, wah si cewek pasti langsung naikin penilaian terhadap diri kamu. Pikiran si cewek Gemini tuh susah ditebak. Orang macem ini nih penuh dengan kejutan deh pokoknya! Cewek Gemini juga adalah tipe cewek yang rapih dan organised banget. Trus kalo omongin jenjang tukaran cincin/pernikahan, wah..harus tunggu ‘berabad-abad’ deh baru bisa dapetin itu. Tipe cewek Gemini tuh nggak gampang dan dia pertama-tama bakal jatuh cinta sama otak kamu dulu, baru orangnya

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Cancer : CANCER (22 Juni - 22 Juli)
Cewek Cancer tipe-tipe yang kasual dan gaul. Bawa dia keluar deh makan pizza, trus udah itu ngemil es krim itu hobinya dia Kalo dia masakin buat kamu, puji deh masakannya. Ngomongin banyak deh tentang keluarga kamu. Dia suka sama cowok yang tipenya dekat dengan keluarga. Jangan sekali kali ngomongin yang jelek tentang keluarganya dia! Tipe cewek Cancer tuh kreatif dan artistik. Tipe ini cewek keibuan banget dan oke banget kalo jadi ibu rumah tangga nanti. Cewek Cancer biasanya pintar take care of cowoknya/suaminya kelak. Hati mereka lembut banget dan perasaannya sensitive banget. Jadi kalo kamu orangnya nggak sabar dan suka bentak-bentak, wah jangan deketin cewek Cancer deh… kesian atuhhhh!

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Leo : LEO (23 Juli-22 Agustus)
Kalo mau nge-date in cewek Leo, bawa dia pergi nonton ke bioskop, resto yang romantis, atau konser klasik. Doi suka kalo ada cowok yang perhatiin dia.Doi juga suka kalo di-jeles-in, hehehe… Kalo kamu bukan tipe yang suka jeles-an, doi bakal bikin kamu sampai merasa jeles. Dia merasa kecemburuan adalah suatu pujian. Doi suka cowok yang kekar (cepet daftar di fitness center kalo bodi kamu masih tulang-belulang!). Doi juga suka mencium bau parfum cowok yang maskulin. Doi juga suka dipuji terus. Cewek Leo banyak disukai orang. Jadi kamu harus treat her right, kalo nggak, ke-rebut orang lain!Kalo kamu bisa take care of her secara financially dan secara emosional,wah, doi bakal lengket sama kamu terus deh! Doi kalo udah marah ato lagi bete, maunya diturutin dan jangan sekali kali marah balik atau bentak dia karena dia ‘fragile’ banget hatinya alias lunak.

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Virgo : VIRGO (23 Agustus-22 September)
Mending jangan telat nge-jemput si Virgo maniez ini pada date yang pertama. Berpakaian modis en trendy bisa bikin si maniez ini jadi makin terpikat sama kamu. Cewek Virgo demen cowok yang profesional dan bergelar paling tidak S-1. Kalo S-krim sih wah gawat dech. Cewek Virgo emang agak pemalu tapi ini nggak berarti ‘lampu merah’ buat kamu. Doi akan lebih berani kalau setelah diajak untuk keluar bareng beberapa kali. Doi juga orangnya rapih. Kalo kamu tipe yang berantakan, doi nggak akan bersifat keibuan bantuin kamu ngerapihin karena dia juga suka tipe cowok yang rapih. Kalo kamu mau dapetin dia, jangan berhenti mencoba. Emang agak susah sih ngedapetin cewe Virgo. Kualitas dalam diri cowok tuh penting banget buat cewek Virgo. Doi tuh orangnya ambisius sekali dan tipe tipe wanita berkarir di hari kelaknya.

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Libra : LIBRA (23 September-23 October)
Cewek Libra umumnya demen diajak ke tempat-tempat atau acara-acara yang klasik-klasik, misalnya ke acara pernikahan, konser klasik, winery, dan lain-lainnya. Pokoke, doi tuh suka yang serba elegant deh. Doi suka tipe cowok yang berpakaian agak formal. Bawa bunga deh untuk dia atau kado kado yang feminim. Dia bakal seneng banget. Cewek Libra demen perhatiin trend busana dan sifat ke-feminitas nya tuh ‘kental’ banget. Tapi kadang, mereka agak centil dan genit juga sama cowok-cowok.Bukan berarti nyeleweng loh! Tapi yang pasti, mereka mendambakan satu pria yang pas buat mereka yang bisa dampingin mereka dan kalo udah ketemu, mereka bakal setia sama tuh cowok. Doku kamu harus kuat juga soalnya doi demen banget yang namanya shopping ke mall. Kalo kamu mau nembak doi, bikin deh puisi-puisi cinta yang romantis buat dia.

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Scorpio : SCORPIO (24 Oktober-21 November)
Cewek Scorpio tuh tipe yang funky. Demen tempat gelap, demen warna item. Pokoknya tipe-tipe yang suka deh kalo diajak ke bar, casino, dsb. (tapi nggak berarti dia bukan cewek baek2 loh! Cuman funky aje). Model cewek Scorpio tuh ada 2 macem sih sebenarnya. Satu tuh yang religius banget dan sangat sangat taat agama, trus satu lagi yang ehm…’menyimpang’ arah. Tipe cewek Scorpio nggak akan banyak cerita tentang dirinya. So, kamu lah yang harus nebak sendiri. Jangan sekali kali marahin cewek Scorpio karena nanti kamu sendiri yang bakal kena getahnya! Doi sama sekali nggak keibuan sifatnya. Doi lebih cenderung ke tipe cewek hyper yang demen party.

Tips Pendekatan ke cewek Sagitarius : SAGITARIUS (22 November-21 Desember)
Tipe cewek Sagitarius tuh yang nggak bisa diem. Doi hobi olahraga dan travelling. Doi juga suka cowok yang berpakaiankasual dan sportif.Doi juga punya banyak sekali temen temen cowok dan herannya, doi bisa akrab dan dekat sama mereka. Doi adalah tipe yang asik banget kalo diajak melakukan kegiatan atau aktivitas-aktivitas yang biasanya cowok-cowok lakukan, misalnya basket, softball, boling, maen gitar sambil nyanyi,dsb deh. Doi bukan model yang abisin waktunya di dapur dan jaga anak deh!Kalo doi emang juga naksir sama kamu, siap-siap aja deh doi bakal ngajakin kamu lakukan kegiatan bareng dia. Satu hal lagi, cewek Sagitarius tuh tipe yang suka diberi kebebasan!

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